Our children don’t need more screen time. They need their Dads more than ever.
Not just DADS™ — Dads Against Devices™; but Dads who are present, prepared and willing to lead by example and instruction.
They need us to teach and show them how to build real relationships. To be present. To communicate. To think critically. To develop empathy, resilience and discipline.
We do this by creating boundaries, providing guided exposure with technology and teaching digital literacy. This allows us and our families to create space and time to develop these essential skills.
Our children are growing up in tech saturated world that is proving harmful to their mental, emotional and relational wellbeing. As DADS™ we need to be leaders our children can look to and follow.
I know this is a difficult task. It’s hard. It requires swimming against the cultural tide. But I believe if we don’t at least try to swim our children and families will be swept down stream to places we would never want for them.
I realize this effort will be fraught with challenges and uncomfortable conversations. But our children need their DADS™ to lead them, teach them, and show them how to live a good life in a world drowning in distractions, diversions and deceptions.
I don’t have all the answers, knowledge or skills, but I’m committed to trying, learning and growing so that I can be the Dad my children need.
Welcome to DADS™. I’m glad you found us.
From my home,
Matthew
Founder, DADS™— Dads Against Devices™
Our pledge.
I will not provide my children with a smartphone or social media access until they become adults. Nor will I allow unlimited, unrestricted or unmonitored access to the internet, streaming services, gaming, or screens in our home. Instead, I will lead my family — by example and instruction — to be present, build relationships, strengthen the body, and nurture the attributes of love, communication, empathy, kindness, gratitude, humility, forgiveness, critical thinking, imagination, discipline, patience, integrity, resilience, courage, wisdom, and faith.